There are secrets wedding photographers don’t want you to know. Choosing your wedding photographer is one of the most important decisions you’ll make. These are the photos you’ll treasure forever—the ones that will transport you back to the happiest day of your life.
But wedding photography isn’t as straightforward as it might seem, and there are things that some photographers don’t openly share. As someone who has photographed countless weddings, I believe you deserve full transparency. Knowing these seven “secrets” will help you find the photographer who’s the perfect fit for you—someone you trust completely to capture every moment.
1. Not All Photographers Shoot Every Wedding Themselves
Did you know that some photographers send an associate to cover your wedding instead of showing up themselves? This is common in larger studios, where the person you book might not be the one holding the camera on your big day.
I can’t imagine handing over such an important responsibility to someone else. When you book me, you get me. I’ll be there from our first conversation to the final moment of your wedding day. It’s personal for me because I want to build a connection with you that translates into photos that feel authentic and uniquely yours. I’ll help calm your nerves, fix your veil, and make sure you’re comfortable every step of the way—because your experience matters as much as the final images.
Read: The Beth Sheridan Experience
2. Secrets Wedding Photographers Don’t Want You to Know: Editing Is a Huge Part of the Process (and It Takes Time)
Have you ever wondered why it takes weeks to receive your wedding photos? It’s because editing is where the magic happens. While capturing the moments on your wedding day is crucial, editing brings your gallery to life, ensuring every image is polished and cohesive.
For me, editing isn’t just about tweaking colors or adjusting lighting. It’s about telling your story in a way that feels timeless and true to your day. I hand-edit every photo myself because I want your gallery to be a reflection of everything that made your wedding special. Yes, it takes time, but it’s worth it to deliver images that you’ll fall in love with every time you see them.
3. Packages Often Include Hidden Costs
One of the most frustrating parts of planning a wedding is unexpected costs. Some photographers offer low starting prices but add extra fees for travel, albums, or high-resolution images.
I believe your experience should feel seamless—not stressful. That’s why I offer clear, customizable packages designed around your needs. During our consultation, I’ll walk you through every detail, so there are no surprises. Whether you’re looking for full-day coverage, a stunning wedding album, or a second shooter, we’ll create a plan that works for you and your budget.
What Couples Say:
“Beth made everything so easy. She was upfront about what was included, and there were no surprise fees. The package we chose felt perfect for us, and the final photos were worth every penny!” – Emma & Chris
4. Secrets Wedding Photographers Don’t Want You to Know: The Right Fit Matters More Than You Think
Your photographer will be by your side for the most emotional and intimate moments of your wedding day—like getting ready, your first look, and the quiet moments before you walk down the aisle. If you don’t feel comfortable with them, it can affect how you feel in front of the camera and, ultimately, how your photos turn out.
That’s why I always recommend scheduling a consultation. This is your chance to see if we’re a good fit, talk about your vision, and ask questions about my process. I want you to feel confident, supported, and excited about working together. By the time your wedding day arrives, I’ll feel less like a vendor and more like a trusted friend.
5. Why a Second Shooter Is Essential for Full Coverage
Having a second shooter at your wedding isn’t just an add-on—it’s a game-changer for full coverage. A second photographer allows us to capture multiple angles of the same moment, like the joy on your face as you walk down the aisle and the tears in your partner’s eyes as they see you for the first time.
It also means we can document different parts of the day simultaneously, like you getting ready with your bridal party while your partner prepares with theirs. At one wedding, my second shooter captured the groom sharing a quiet moment with his father while I photographed the bride’s first look with her mom. Those dual perspectives made their gallery feel complete and rich with emotion.
We’ll discuss whether a second shooter is right for your wedding during our consultation. If it’s a fit, I’ll ensure we’re perfectly coordinated to capture every moment beautifully.
Read: Should You Have A Second Photographer
6. Some Photographers Stick to Formulas
No two weddings are the same, and your photos shouldn’t be either. Unfortunately, some photographers rely on a cookie-cutter approach, using the same poses and backdrops at every event. While those photos might look fine, they often lack the personality and emotion that make your gallery feel truly yours.
I take a different approach. Before your wedding, we’ll talk about the little things that matter to you—like the way your partner makes you laugh, the heirloom jewelry you’re wearing, or the inside jokes you share with your bridal party. On your wedding day, I’ll adapt to the energy and flow, capturing moments that feel natural and uniquely you.
7. Secrets Wedding Photographers Don’t Want You to Know: Portfolios Don’t Always Show the Full Picture
When you browse a photographer’s portfolio, you’re seeing their highlight reel—the best shots from multiple weddings. While this can give you a sense of their style, it doesn’t show how consistent their work is across an entire event.
I want you to feel completely confident in your choice, which is why I offer to show full galleries during consultations. You’ll see how I approach everything from getting-ready photos to the final dance of the night, so you know exactly what to expect. Transparency builds trust, and trust is the foundation of everything I do.
What to Expect During Your Consultation
During our consultation, we’ll talk through every detail of your wedding day, from your timeline to your unique vision for your photos. I’ll answer any questions you have about my process, show you a complete gallery from a past wedding, and help you decide if a second shooter or any additional services are right for you. This is your chance to get to know me and make sure I’m the perfect fit for your big day.
The Bottom Line: Trust Matters Most
Your wedding photographer isn’t just capturing images—they’re preserving memories that you’ll treasure forever. By understanding these behind-the-scenes truths, you’re better equipped to choose someone who aligns with your vision, values, and personality.
When you work with me, you’re not just hiring a photographer—you’re choosing someone who’s as invested in your day as you are. Let’s create something unforgettable together.
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